I walk a few blocks from my Streeterville condo, and I find two wildly different venues that spark the same result in me: creativity in overdrive and a sense of Happily Ever Always™ calm. These “third places” sit somewhere between home and office—oases where I sip, eat, watch, listen, and let ideas bloom.
RL Restaurant: Elegance That Lowers the Pulse
As I slide into a tartan banquette at RL, the bustle of Chicago Avenue fades. Dark paneled walls whisper of English manor libraries; oil portraits keep stoic company while silver teapots glint under low lamps. I love RL at any hour, but post lunchtime feels like genteel time-travel. Servers glide, linen swishes, and the hush invites reflection. Come summer, hedges enclose the sidewalk terrace so completely you’d swear you’re dining in Mayfair, not a Magnificent Mile corridor.
Why does this matter? Peaceful surroundings sharpen my perception. Over a decadent slice of mouthwatering Coconut cake, a cup of chamomile tea and a perfectly folded napkin I’ve solved client staging dilemmas, drafted marketing copy, and hatched record-breaking negotiation strategies. Beauty and order reset my mental circuitry; I leave RL with calmer nerves and clearer plans than when I entered.
SPACE 519: Stimulus Without Chaos
Steps from my door, SPACE 519 hums with a different frequency. Part boutique, part café, part curated curiosity shop, it delights every sense at once. Moroccan rugs, small-batch chocolate bars, oversized art books—each vignette begs to be deconstructed and reimagined. I’ll nurse an espresso in The Lunchroom, scanning shelves and asking myself:
How could that lacquer tray re-energize my coffee table? Could those botanicals inspire a floral palette for tomorrow’s dinner party?
Often, I purchase nothing; the observation alone is enough. By the time I stroll out, my mental sketchbook holds half a dozen concepts for small gifts or table-setting twists. The space is electrifying—but never frantic—precisely calibrated to coax creativity without crowding the senses and those black and white cupcakes – unforgettable!
Why Third Places Matter
- Environment Shapes Emotion. RL’s genteel hush and SPACE 519’s playful vignettes lure me into distinct moods—one contemplative, the other exploratory. Both moods feed my soul and my work.
- Unexpected Cross-Pollination. A gallery-worthy lamp spotted over coffee gives me new ideas. Small details migrate from third place to professional practice almost unconsciously.
- Human Rapport. At RL, the hostess greets me by name; at SPACE 519 the barista knows I like my macchiato extra-dry. Familiar faces ground me amid the day’s unpredictability, reminding me that gracious service transcends boundaries.
Bringing the Magic Home
I leave every third-place visit with a micro-assignment:
- Rearrange one shelf using RL’s “less-is-more” negative space.
- Try SPACE 519’s color-blocking trick on this week’s open-house flowers.
- Write a handwritten thank-you to the staff who made my coffee pause exceptional.
These simple follow-ups turn inspiration into action, and action into habit.
Your Turn
Seek a space that drops your shoulders and lifts your eyebrows—be it a sunlit atrium, a jazz bar, or a corner bookstore with a resident cat. Linger. Observe. Let your Happily Ever Always™ life borrow a few design notes from the room around you.
Because when we wander with wonder—whether through mahogany-lined dining rooms or concept-shop cafés—we collect sparks that can light up everything we touch once we step back into the street.